How to avoid dating jerks
And hey, if needs aren't being met, there's no shame in the occasional solitary pleasure! There's a time and place for grand gestures, but it's not everyone's style.
You've always thought of yourself as someone who likes sex, with a perfectly healthy libido and a good dose of curiosity and willingness to try new things.
But then you meet this apparent sex maniac, and you start feeling broken.
Maybe it's a guy who complains, "My ex girlfriend would have sex with me five times a day!
It's a sign that your partner isn't willing to bend — not backward, but maybe just a little bit — to an honest, simple, easy request coming from a place of purity in your weepy, rom-com-loving, little heart.
If it means that much to you, a good partner will bite the bullet and make it work once in a while, and maybe even have fun while doing it. Now, the old cliché of women chasing men down the street in wedding dresses is on its way to non-existence — but that doesn't mean we don't deserve (and demand) to have questions about a relationship's future treated with respect.